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Men are good at processing food into a special cuisine, is a coveted skill that many women. Some experts claim sex, in the eyes of woman that men who cook more sexy than those who do not.
As quoted from the pages of The Stir Cafemom, a man who prepares the food to be shown to a woman signifies that she knows how to show his ability. He also pointed out to her partner that she gave more attention.
"Plus, if he shows patience while slicing food in the form of dice, could indicate that he is a happy kind of guy who could partner in bed," said one expert on sex.
A man who would prepare the dinner also indicates that he was able to build a sex life that much better. Or, even if we want a quickie, he is more likely to have mad skills and impressive technique.
Another thing, men who are willing to cook for a couple shows that he has the initiative. He was able to finish the kitchen, and do not think that cooking is women's work.
Men like this usually also be democratic. Is a figure of a man who can give equal opportunity to a partner to do something, and is the kind of guy who is willing to share in household tasks.
A man who can make imaginative salads and food plants aphrodisiac sex drive like figs, strawberries, and avocados get more points in the eyes of women.
Men who have cooking skills will also be easy to attract women. Not only look sexy, but many women who think can steal a little attention to making good cooking tutor.
Many women also think have a partner skilled in cooking will save more money, because it certainly will be more frequent for a romantic dinner at home with special dishes that will be created specially for you women.
How do you think men who like to cook more sexy?
At the beginning of a relationship, many men also wonder 'if I should bring flowers?'. The effect brings this interest, it depends on each person. Then, as far as what interest contributed to conditions of women's feelings?
As reported by the Yourtango, to know the answer, a study was conducted Nicolas Guéguen recently. He investigated the association between romantic interest with human behavior.
Guéguen interested in how flowers can change the ranking of female attraction to a man, including his behavior while dating. In an experiment, a woman asked to enter a room and watch a video depicting a young man eating habits. The room is there that contain flowers and some do not.
In the first experiment, in the room there are three vases containing a mixture of relationship roses, French marigolds, and daisies. After watching the video, women were asked to provide an assessment of youth.
Then, to find out more detail the effect created a second experiment. In this experiment, the man in the video with a woman watching it, meet each other and interact. The man also asked for her number and a date. From these two experiments the researchers wanted to see the effect of interest rates at a level of a user and his behavior while dating.
The results of the first trial, the woman who was in the room decorated with flowers, tend to judge a man in the video more attractive both physically and sexually. They are also more willing to interact, than women who are in the room without flowers.
Then, the results of both trials showed that women who were in the room with flowers also tend to be easier to give your phone number and a date with a man in the video, the percentage is about 81 percent. Meanwhile, in a room without interest, only half of women who are willing to give me her number.
From these results, flowers more or less does affect women's feelings. Perhaps this is also what makes the classic romantic behavior, ie bring flowers on a first date or to seduce, still continues to this day. So, men, give flowers to your beloved woman!
Various studies reveal, while falling in love, the human body produces the hormone of love and spread throughout the body. The most obvious of these hormones are a pair of sparkling eyes, often referred to as 'glasses roses'.
A recent study showed that long-term relationships the most happy is the relationship with a partner who does not accurately see the quality of couples including physical since the beginning of the relationship.
The study of 2,000 married couples found that 'honeymoon period' lasted 14 months. Article published in Psychological Science contains a study of 220 newly married couple for three years. Duration of marriage that allows starting the erosion of passion.
Participants were asked to mention what you want from your partner and assess the quality themselves and a partner like kindness, confidence, intelligence, understanding. Including the negative traits, including laziness and immaturity.
"We measure the ideal type of person to yourself and your partner," explained Dr. Dale Griffin, a psychologist at the University of British Columbia and one of the authors report. "Then we use perception to measure the difference between ideal and reality."
The result, for three years, decreased satisfaction on all respondents, except for groups who saw the couple as the ideal figure at the beginning of a relationship."Those who cling to the illusion of an ideal is more likely to have higher satisfaction, while people are more realistic to be less satisfied," said Dr. Griffin as published in the Daily Mail.
Surprisingly, both partners need not have a view of 'ideal' to achieve closer ties. Experts say, if a couple looking at an exceptional partner, they will give more attention and forgives the transgression committed couples.
"So far, we have not found dangerous levels of idealization, although in theory, run from reality is also not good even if the positive domain," said Dr. Griffin.
Research at the Australian Institute of Family Studies show, the couple married and eventually decided to split up on average after 8.7 years of married life. The longer than 7.5 years in the 1980s. The time required for couples to divorce also increased from 10.2 years to 12.3 years.
As quoted from The Herald Sun, the divorce rate of married couples is less than 10 years declined from 49 percent in 1990 to 43 percent in 2000 and 41 percent in 2009.
Statistics shows that couples with age over 20 years of marriage more than a decade ago. The number of married couples in a long time, up from 20 percent in 1980 to 24 percent in 2000, and 28 percent in 2009.
However, the results are different for younger couples and is often called generation Y. Women who married at age 25-29 would be more likely to end in divorce than older generations.
For example, in 2006, 20 of every 1,000 married women aged 25-29 in divorce. Meanwhile, in the same year, the divorce occurred in 18 of the 1000 women married at age 35-39 years. The opposite occurs in men. Divorce rate was highest in men aged 30-34 years, with notes, women married at a younger age than men.
For couples who live together, even higher separation rates 3-5 times (25-38 percent) than married people (7-9 percent).
Study author, Dr Lixia Qu and Ruth Weston say this is not surprising, given the relationship without marriage is more unstable than marriage.
"Some couples living together assume a wedding rehearsal or 'warm up' before marriage. Several other live together without being married because of lack of commitment, "they said.
As a freelance writer, Diane devotes his life story through an article titled 'Goodbye Husband, Wife Hello', published in the Boston Globe. He talked about his struggle to receive the husband as a transgender.
Fragment of a story that happened in 2004 that made Diane cried every day. It also made him wonder about the other secrets which her husband might still be hidden. "My physical and emotional stress (at the time)," wrote Diane.
Increasingly severe struggle when her husband who is now 47-year-old decided to change its name to Lina. Through his article, Diane called her marriage a long painful process, where most couples are not able to survive.
While Lina felt that the relief has opened the secrets of his life in front of his wife. "I finally made a decision and are free from heavy loads," Lina said in an interview with ABC News.
Lina who works at one of these companies said that the medical analysis Diane need to forget about him following a painful old memories. He kept telling Diane that was the best decision. He did not want Diane deeper pain.
"What I fear is that you (Diane) will see me as a monster or a freak just like everybody looks at me, even more cruelly," Lina sentence is what ultimately makes Diane began to open up and accept what it is Lina.
Experienced a similar story of Helen Boyd, author of My Husband Betty '. Women who celebrate wedding anniversary-10 was also passed during the long struggle to accept her husband's condition is a transgender. Initially, she also cried when he knew would lose her husband's manliness.
"He is still charming and can make me laugh when I have no reason to laugh. We have the same view of the world and he knows me better than anyone, "said Helen, who was very sincere accompany her husband who has turned into a woman.
A Lesbian Gay Bisexual institutions and Transgender (LGBT) said there are about 750 thousand transgender in America. They generally suffer discrimination in various sectors of life such as education, employment, and health services.
In a survey, as many as 45 respondents experienced the destruction of the relationship because of their transgender identity is revealed. Surprisingly, 55 percent were able to survive in a harmonious relationship with the status that carried.
Are you both still walk while holding hands, or calling with such affection greeting honeymoon period? Or, will turn into a passive partner?
A poll recently released a large scale may have the answer. The contents found, an important point in the relationship is the level and causes of conflict that often occurs at this time. Chances are, the same will continue to be an argument starter next year or 60 years.
From a number of American university professors interviewed more than 2,000 married men and women for 20 years. They found a surprising result that 'the conflict' stable throughout the course of a relationship.
The study, published in the Journal of Family Issues, explain, if you and your spouse are rarely debated, there is a possibility that the relationship remained cool of contention in the future. And, if you are constantly arguing in the beginning of a relationship, chances are it will continue even though long married. However, polls emphasized, this does not mean paangan are not happy or are in a bad relationship.
There are exceptions in this poll. That is, when one or couples experiencing life-changing event. Among serious illness, job loss, or problems with alcohol or drugs. This is a stable transform conflict becomes uncontrollable.
As reported by Shine, researchers showed that the conflict is actually a good thing. And need not be a question if the couple rarely fight. The couple rarely fight does not mean they find another dream.
Another interesting finding in the poll, is that marriage is more likely to survive when men and women think marriage would last forever.
